Everything Is Out To Get Me

Directed by Dustin Curtis Murphy


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Everything Is Out To Get Me

Directed by Dustin Curtis Murphy
Narrative Short
United Kingdom | 9 min | 2022

An abused housewife finds out that her ex-husband has happily re-married and has a newborn baby, but there’s more to his newfound happiness than meets the eye.

“Highlights at the 2023 Indy Shorts International Film Festival”Roger Ebert


“Emerging filmmakers empower audiences at Heartland’s 2023 Indy Shorts International Film Festival” Cinema Femme

As a male survivor of domestic abuse I’ve always felt isolated from the wider social conversation about abusive relationships. Even the narrative in my own head always was: men are abusers… they’re never the abused.

It’s been difficult to find the space to speak my truth, feeling like a freak, an outlying data point discarded because it doesn’t fit into the necessary social conversation about male violence against women… but what happened to me did happen, and my abuser didn’t look like person you’d expect.

In writing and directing Everything Is Out To Get Me, I wanted to challenge audience’s perceptions of what an abusive relationship could look like. It was my goal to have audiences start off empathising with Erin, believing she’s a victim, but then as she tells her side of the story I wanted to expose her lies as the audience starts to notice that her words don’t align with her actions. She’s the very definition of the “unreliable narrator” and indeed she is the abuser in the situation.

When you’ve been abused by someone there are often very few answers, so you’re always left with the question: why? Why did this happen to me? What happened to my abuser to make them treat me this way?

The loss of an abusive relationship is confusing to process. You find yourself mourning the person you thought you were in love with, while also shedding coping mechanisms that blinded you and kept you bound to the relationship. Empathy is often a reason someone remains in a toxic relationship and just because someone abused you doesn’t mean you stop loving them. It’s heartbreaking to see your abusers inability to improve their life and the consequences they live with. Indeed with the character of Erin, I never wanted her institutionalisation to be seen as justice – there truly is no justice. The consequences she faces are of the time period that the film is set and represent the inner turmoil of living with demons.

The post-traumatic stress of being with an abusive partner can leave you with a lot of lingering fear, hence the thriller slant to my short film. Everything Is Out To Get Me is my most personal work to date, and a key catalyst for me to make the film was after I returned to the small town where I was in the relationship almost a decade prior. I found even after all this time, my body had a chemical memory to the traumas I’d experienced there and it triggered a lot of fear and feelings of paranoia.

Facing my fears by making this short film has helped me to understand and process the trauma I’ve experienced and move on from it without it being a dark cloud following me around. It’s the not the happiest film, but I think there’s a silver lining in the resolution at the end, and I’d rather leave that darkness contained in a film than continue to carry it with me.

Everything Is Out To Get Me

Everything Is Out To Get Me - Dustin Curtis MurphyDustin Curtis Murphy

Dustin is a multi-disciplined award-winning shorts and narrative feature filmmaker creating work at the crossroads of social impact and commercial crowd-pleasers. He is drawn towards character driven narratives with relevant social themes, tightly structured plots, and blended genre. Loves a good twist.

Dustin’s debut micro-budget feature COYOTE (2023) starring Therica Wilson-Read (Netflix’s The Witcher) and & BIFA winner Ruhtxjiaïh Bèllènéa (The Last Tree) was a blended genre film which used dystopian sci-fi elements to raise awareness about the plight of queer refugees. It won Best Sci-Fi Feature at VORTEX, the genre sidebar of the Academy Award Qualifying Flicker’s Rhode Island IFF. It was also nominated for Best Feature Film at the National Film Awards and won the Audience Award for Best Feature Film at the Romford Film Festival. It’s been released in North America by Gravitas Ventures and a UK release is coming soon.


SAMARITAN – Winner: Best International Short at Sedona Film Festival, Winner: Grand Prize at The Weather Channel’s #EarthFilmChallenge, Semi-Finalist at Academy Award Qualifying Rhode Island International Film Festival, plus Official Selections at other BAFTA/BIFA qualifiers.

FILTHY ANIMALS – Shortlisted for Raindance’s #OneMinuteTwist Competition.

NORA – Premiered at BFI IMAX as the centrepiece of TEDxNHS and won 19 awards, including 2 for best director.

REPOSSESSED – Best Student Short at Shriekfest, Hollywood

Film Information

Director: Dustin Curtis Murphy
Country:  United Kingdom
Year: 2022
Language: English
Runtime: 9 min
Rated:  R


Writer: Dustin Curtis Murphy
Producer: Dustin Curtis Murphy, Joshua Carrington Birch
Cinematography: Joshua Carrington Birch
Editor: Dustin Curtis Murphy
Composer: Thom Robson

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